At Gush, creating a safe and meaningful dating experience is our top priority. Meeting new people can be exciting, but it's important to prioritize your safety, whether you’re engaging in a 6-minute conversation, continuing a connection, or planning to meet in person. While we cannot control others' actions, we want to empower you with tools and guidance to ensure your safety during your Gush journey.
1. Avoid Sharing Financial Information
Never send money or share financial details like banking information or payment app credentials, even if someone claims to be in an emergency. Scammers often use emotional appeals to exploit people—be cautious. Report any requests for money or suspicious behavior to us immediately.
2. Protect Personal Information
Keep sensitive details private, such as your home or work address, daily routines, or social security number. If you’re a parent, avoid sharing specific information about your children, including photos, names, or their school details.
3. Stay on the Gush Platform
Keep your conversations on the Gush app until you feel confident and safe. Moving conversations off-platform too quickly can bypass our safety measures, leaving room for risky interactions.
4. Beware of Long-Distance or Overseas Scams
Be cautious of individuals who claim to be from your region but are "stuck abroad" and ask for financial help. Avoid engaging with people unwilling to meet via video calls or those pushing for serious commitments without building trust.
5. Report Suspicious Behavior
Use the app’s reporting tools to block and report any behavior that makes you uncomfortable or violates our guidelines. Examples of violations include:
1. Take Your Time
Get to know your match before meeting in person. Use video or phone calls as a screening step to ensure compatibility and comfort.
2. Choose Public Locations
Meet in well-lit, public places with people around. Avoid meeting at private homes or secluded locations. If someone pressures you to do otherwise, consider it a red flag.
3. Inform Someone You Trust
Share your plans with a friend or family member, including your meeting time and location. Use location-sharing features on your phone to keep someone updated on your whereabouts.
4. Maintain Control Over Transportation
Plan your transportation to and from the meeting location. Avoid relying on your date for a ride, and have a backup plan, such as a ride-share app or a trusted friend.
5. Watch Your Drinks and Belongings
Accept drinks only from staff at the venue, and never leave them unattended. Keep personal items like your phone, wallet, or purse with you at all times.
6. Trust Your Instincts
If something feels off or you feel uncomfortable at any point, leave the situation immediately. Your safety and peace of mind are more important than social expectations.
1. Protect Yourself
Using condoms and other protective methods can reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Stay informed about vaccinations for preventable STIs such as HPV.
2. Stay Informed About Your Health
Regular testing is essential to know your status, as many STIs do not show symptoms. Staying proactive protects both you and your partner.
3. Communicate Openly
Before becoming intimate, have an honest conversation about sexual health and boundaries. Open communication fosters trust and ensures mutual respect.
4. Prioritize Consent
All physical interactions must begin with consent. Consent is ongoing, can be withdrawn at any time, and requires clear, sober agreement. Never proceed if your partner is hesitant or unable to consent.
We value inclusivity and strive to create a welcoming environment for all genders and sexual orientations. If traveling to unfamiliar areas, research local laws and safety conditions. In regions where being LGBTQ+ may pose risks, we recommend exercising caution and, if needed, toggling off visibility in the app settings.
For more information on local LGBTQ+ laws, visit resources like ILGA World.
At Gush, your safety is paramount. We encourage users to use these tips, trust their instincts, and report any concerns. Let’s work together to build a respectful and secure community where meaningful connections can flourish.
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